Kelechi Ejikeme So many friends, yet no friend So many people I know, yet nobody I am all alone in my own big world Nobody cares after all. They should have sent messages and called They should have checked on me and visited How can they all be happy? How can they all smile? When I’m not happy, when I can’t smile Nobody cares after all. I do not want to open my eyes this morning I do not want to leave my bed today I do not want to eat and go out I just want to drift to … Continue reading Sound of silence

Ikenna Paschal Okpaleke Once upon a time, Kevin decided to try his luck with a girl in the neighbourhood. Felicia is her name. After persistent begging, Felicia decides to lower her guards a bit by giving Kevin the rare opportunity of taking her out on a date. In those days, this meant going to a fast food restaurant and having a bite of meat-pie and soft drink. Interestingly, Felicia did what most girls considered fashionable then: She only had a half bite of the meat-pie and also took half of her Fanta, pretending to be satisfied. Kevin, the poor dude, … Continue reading Musarachi – Some quick take-aways

Ikenna Paschal Okpaleke Last Friday, 22nd June 2018, the day Nigeria’s Super Eagles won the match against Iceland, was perhaps the happiest day for the greatest number of Nigerians ever, at least for more than 4 years now. Indeed, the walls of division seem to have collapsed that day. Unity among all peoples and denominations and religions appeared to have been very evident and very concrete. National unity became normal without further preconditions. As usual, my interest was to listen to the voices at the fringes; the voices of unity. I heard people highlighting how Musa has within 90 minutes brought … Continue reading Musarachi

@ Ikenna Paschal Okpaleke  We shall go up into God’s house With shouts of jo-y We shall go into the house of the Lord Sang the choir in unison with the well-dressed crowd of worshippers. Then, bells out Aunty Maureen, the nightingale of St. Cecilia’s choir, in scintillating solo: For the peace of Jerusalem pray Peace be to your homes May peace reign in your walls In your palaces peace That was the fourth stanza. It was at this point that Okechukwu entered the church. It was his first time in a Catholic Mass. His curiosity led him into deciding … Continue reading Wakanda Signage

My name is Rev. Fr. Chris and I want to tell you a story about my bestie: Naza (short for Chinaza) is my bestie. Yes, you heard me. She is my cousin, one that has been very close to me, having known me through and through. I was the older one. She calls me ‘uncle’ when she was still a baby. But today, having become a woman that she is, with all the confidence that adorns her very exciting and impressive life, she now calls me ‘bestie’. They say that your bestie is not necessarily your boyfriend or girlfriend which … Continue reading My Bestie – Ikenna Paschal Okpaleke

Intro and analysis: The quote above was followed by the question: “Do you agree?” We received over 60 responses which was very heart-warming. Out of the 60, only 18 (representing 30%) are married while the rest 42 (70%) are not-married. Almost all the married (about 90%) agreed completely with the statement, the remaining 10% did not agree totally. Among the 42 not-married respondents, about 25 (c. 60%) agreed completely while the remaining 17 (c. 40%) either disagreed completely or agreed under certain conditions. May I therefore present below some of the reactions. You will notice that some of the responses … Continue reading Dating in – Marriage out (3): Selected responses